Palma — Intentional first dates in NYC

A couple sharing pizza on a New York brownstone stoop
A new way to date in NYC

Give your meet-cute a better story.

First dates, made easier, more natural,
and actually fun.

Real connection. Better first dates. No endless swiping.

The problem

The hardest part of dating is the first date.

Most dating apps help you find someone, then leave you to figure out the rest.

Too often, that means another coffee, drink, or dinner that feels more like an interview than a spark.

We’re testing something different: first dates with ease, energy, and something real to start from.

How it works

How it works

A thoughtful, human process.

01

Tell us how you date

Share who you're open to meeting, what matters to you, and what kinds of dates feel like you.

02

We find someone compatible

A real person reviews your intake and looks for a match with shared intent, availability, and date style.

03

We create the first date

If there's a fit, we'll reach out with a plan you both might actually enjoy.

04

You meet with more to connect over

A better first date gives connection somewhere to start.

The beta

Built by product leaders who built the most intentional dating apps.

Our team includes people who led product at Hinge and HER — apps designed to help people connect with more care, clarity, and authenticity.